Feeder/Feedee

Why i am here

I'm a 73 year old male and am married. Probably the furthest away from the average user here. Every once in a while, I get a quick response in mail, with a hi or hey, etc. After about 10 times back in fourth, I get the question, "Do you want to be my feeder." Translation: will you send me money. This is despite saying in my profile that I do not send money to people I meet online. My connection to the feedee community is that after dating BBW's for many many years, I don't think I've known one in person who likes being fat wants to gain. I'm fascinated by people who enjoy it and want to get bigger. (Although I am fine with people who want to stay the same.) When I was single, I was quite generous to women that I dated. So, I'm not a cheapskate. So, I'm glad to talk about fat acceptance history, glad to answer relationship questions, since I am not looking for anything here. If we have anything else in common, I'll be glad to talk about that too. Just, please don't start the conversation with "hey." If you want to chat (and I realize that most don't want to and I'm fine with that), please state the purpose of why you chose me over the thousands of other people here in your first message. Also, I am not into other men, so I probably won't answer that either. I get the comment that if I want to chat with females here, I have to send them money. And no, I don't want to chat with females who expect money.
3 months

Why i am here

Honestly, it's cool that you are still here. You have a different perspective into things and prefer to keep things at a level that's just more intellectual and friendly. That's alright. It just sucks that a lot of these spaces are taken up by many people who are either struggling within the community financially or are taking advantage of others.
2 months

Why i am here

I can relate. I had a handful of this the last time I had a profile on here. Same thing, my profile states that I'm happily married. I'm mainly here for like minded people & friends/conversations. Those people, when I get those messages, i ignore, but it does get frustrating with just genuinely looking for conversations or input.
2 months